Who Is She?

The Fetishist I was fourteen years old when I discovered a picture in a book of a Victorian lady sitting at her dressing table in a corset, stockings and heeled boots. I was compelled by the image of this powerfully seductive woman in her black leather boots, tightly laced silk corset and stockings held up with garters. The memory of that moment was unforgettable: the book, having survived years of travel, resides on my bookshelf today.

Disciplinarian I was educated in England. Within the English education system, corporal discipline was not only tolerated, it was encouraged: “Spare the rod and spoil the child.” I recollect the sound of it resonating from the headmaster’s office.

Benevolent Sadist Intense sensation judiciously applied can take you on a journey of powerful catharsis, allowing you to reach into the darkest corners of your mind, moving beyond the physical, embracing the metaphysical. I have felt it and experienced it, having taken someone as far as I can: a mutual exhausted recognition that we have engaged in a sacred dance.

Who am I? If I were to be seated near you in a restaurant, drinking a glass of wine, you would perceive a sophisticated, elegantly dressed woman, with a distinctive accent, striking red hair, porcelain skin and penetrating blue eyes. She is engaging, disarming and utterly intriguing.

Why be a professional Mistress? Because if I were to pursue any other profession it would be utterly inauthentic. That said, my profession is not limited to the dungeon. It reaches into education, costume design, co-creating with fabulous photographers, and meeting fascinating and engaging people throughout the world.

Play, training and discipline are all a dance for me, a movement between people. I love the dance. Watching classical ballet similarly moves me with its themes of discipline, restraint, intensity, passion and beauty.

Where do I play? A luxurious and fully equipped play space in a safe residential neighborhood in San Francisco.

Outside of the dungeon My passions include yoga; my indoor garden; afternoon tea; reading on a variety of subjects from etiquette and protocol, to philosophy and world religion; delicious food; good service; and impeccable manners.

I am a member of the Society of Janus, the San Francisco Citadel and SF Stampede.

My skills are in BDSM only. Those inquiring for all other personal services, please look elsewhere. There is absolutely no sex offered or implied by this listing.